Valentine’s Day is a great way to celebrate a romantic connection or new relationship. But if you are just in the starting stages of coupledom it can also be a worrying time. How do you strike the right balance between romance and making sure you don’t go overboard? How do you make sure that you don’t scare off your newish partner with declarations of devotion which are more suited to longer relationships? Read below to discover our tips for Valentines Day for New Couples.
Make Sure You’re On The Same Page Before Making Plans
You first step is to sound out your partner to get a general idea of their expectations and plans for February the 14th. If you have made a fresh connection, it’s possible that your significant other isn’t expecting very much at all and may have even made other plans!
On the other hand, if they are a romantic soul, they may be expecting candle light and roses. Make sure to get the info you need way ahead of time so you can make plans that you and your partner are comfortable with.
Don’t Put Too Much Pressure On Yourself
Remember Valentine’s day is a day for couples. That means you as well! Think about how you feel and how you would like to spend the day. If you don’t feel comfortable laying down your credit card for a meal in an expensive restaurant just yet, then come up with an alternative that you can both enjoy.
Discuss your date with your partner and ask them how they would like to spend the day. You may be surprised by exactly how much your ideas and plans align. And if not, there are always ways to compromise so you both enjoy the day and have a great time.
Don’t Go Overboard with Gifts
If you have just begun dating, then make sure the scale of your gifts reflect that. A nice, thoughtful, and touching gift based upon what you have learnt about their lives and hobbies will prove your interest and thoughtfulness. If you are not in a committed relationship just yet, huge displays and occasions may scare your partner and put them under pressure to spend similar amounts.
Ignore Social Media Expectations
Ignore Instagram famous moments and Tik Tok trends and pick an activity or event which is the perfect fir for you and your relationship. Valentine’s Day is a time for you to enjoy each other’s company, not worry about making sure you are striking the perfect poses in impressive locations for your social media following. So don’t stretch your budget beyond your capabilities in order to fit in with what influencers are carefully choreographing.
Concentrate on Having a Good Time and Getting to Know Each other
Whether you have decided on a romantic meal or a casual coffee, take the opportunity to enjoy each other’s company and learning more about each other. You don’t have to play a role the entire night based upon what you remember from Hugh Grant movies. Breathe, relax, be yourself – and you’re sure to have fun!
