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A break up is not the end.
Breaking up with someone does not mean the world will come to an end and everyone is certainly not out to get you. Even though it may not feel like it, this is a start of a new beginning. Enjoy the freedom and remember that there will always be someone better waiting out there to sweep you off your feet. Bear in mind that you may have to search through a few rocks before you find a gem.
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Never forget who you are.
There is a possibility that when dating you will get so used to putting a front on you may forget who you actually are. You may want to hide some of the more quirky elements that make you who you are, but don’t hide too much. Your date is asking you to be who you say you are and by trying to be the person you think they want, you could lose sight of the wonderful person you are.
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Happiness is within you.
Never rely on another person to make you happy. Your happiness should come from inside you where ever you may be and whatever you are doing. Independence is so important whether you are in a relationship or not, where happiness can come from the relationship, it shouldn’t be the only thing you rely on.
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Trust your nearest and dearest.
When dating you may get to the stage where you want your friends and family to meet your date. If they offer their opinion or you happen to ask for it, make sure you listen. It is very easy for you to dismiss what they have to say if they don’t like them, however take a moment to hear what they have to say. You never know, they may just be right.
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Family
Through every up and down of your dating experiences , be safe in the knowledge that your family will always be there for you no matter what. They will be your touch stone and your safety net so cherish them for they will always be on your side.
