If you are a natural introvert, dating can be incredibly nerve-wracking! The very idea of forcing social prolonged social contact with someone you don’t know very well can be terrifying! But all hope is not lost! Dating can still be fun for an introvert, as long as you pick good locations and don’t try to force yourself to act like an extrovert!
There are plenty of options for introverts to consider then dating and they don’t all involve loud crowded places! In fact, there are plenty of places perfectly suited to dates for introverts no matter where you are. Read below to discover our best tips for the Top 5 Best Places to Date for Introverts.
Head to a Book Store
This is a great place for a casual date in an introvert-friendly environment. Book stores tend to be quiet, relaxing places and there will be plenty for you to concentrate on as you recommend your favourite books, look at the new releases and even recommend a book for each other to buy, and read.
Watch a Movie
Going to the cinema will take the pressure off of an introvert, as you won’t constantly need to make conversation. You can make some small talk before the movie, have fun choosing your snacks, and then settle down for the movie. Once the film ends, you will have a set subject to fall back on if the conversation starts to falter. Did you like the film? If you did, why? What’s your favourite movie ever? Who is your favourite actor? etc.
Go for an Evening Walk Under the Stars
If you struggle with crowds, why not wait until the sun goes down and enjoy a quiet and romantic walk under the stars? You won’t have to worry about competing with loud noise and traffic and can concentrate on the conversation you are having entirely.
If you get nervous or struggle with conversation filler, take a look around you – Are there any beautiful or weird sites? Interesting stores you love? Did you go to school nearby? Do they know the area well?
Go on An Activity Date
If you are worried about feeling anxious during awkward silences, give yourself and your date something to concentrate on by choosing an activity date.
Whether you choose mini-golf, bowling, cycling, hiking, or indoor climbing, there will be plenty of things to talk about, concentrate on and distract yourself with if you start to get nervous. You and your date should have a fun time and the activity will give you something to talk about!
Take a Class Together
Head to the website of your local college and see if there are any classes or one-day workshops that you and your date would enjoy. These will tend to be quiet, relaxed environments where you and your date can enjoy learning a new skill, getting to know each other, and getting used to each other’s company.
So, there you have it, being introverted doesn’t have to be a bar to having a great date. You just need to be a little more imaginative about the location! Pick something that you and your date will both enjoy and will give you something to chat about and concentrate on. This should alleviate some of the social pressure and give you the room to relax and be yourself!
